Great Spirit/ Great Soul

Thanks Given for a Great Spirit

 Date: Tues, 26 Nov 1996
 To: oiiall@gsn.org
 From: ferdi@tigger.jvnc.net (Ferdi Serim)
 Subject: Thanks Given for a Great Spirit

 HI folks,
 As Alan Feldman has noted, you can almost depend upon a note from me around a holiday, so here goes...this holiday I am forcefully returned to fundamentals, of health, companionship, support and love, by the loss of a friend.

 Lee Reid, minister of the Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Englewood NJ, was struck and killed by a car last Weds night, although I didn't learn  about it until Sunday. Lee, during her time here, hosted a magnificent spirit, fiercely dedicated to justice the way some are wedded to righteousness. Her soul seems now to fit the "too good for this world" category,  she'd taught us all she could and had to move on...

 The first time I saw her, she entered our church as a guest "preacher" on a date when I was doing a jazz service. The moment of our meeting was mutually transforming, I by her thoughts, she by the voice of my drums. I realized only later that I'd seen her spiritual manifestation before seeing her physical one...she was radiant and timeless. The power of her words were only an echo  to her living, challenging people to live multicultural acceptance, not merely parrot nice sounds from the comfort of privilege.

 Over a period of 7 years, she turned around the Englewood fellowship to the point where 20 black families joined with those of the original white congregation who didn't leave when Lee walked the talk, and opened both heart and home to all (some did leave). When Dizzy died, and I wondered how I could make it through  his memorial, Lee made sure I didn't have to do it alone, and went to Harlem with me, spent the day with me, helped me heal.

 Now those of us who were fortunate enough to have touched lives with Lee are left to  continue her work. Insofar as our work, gentle reader, depends upon pursuit of justice and equity, we are on a parallel path to that Lee traveled. As I am thankful for having known by example the possibilities of living such a life, so too am I deeply thankful to be walking and working this path with each of you. We light the way for one another, in turn, as needed.

 This Sunday I wrote the second piece of music I've composed in 4 years (the last one was for Diz), entitled Radiant Lee. Seems I can only write music when someone dies, so I hope I either stop writing, or find a less traumatic source of inspiration ;-> But I hope that the expression of fellowship of our  deepest humanity doesn't similarly have to wait for eulogizing...we ought to be celebrating the gifts we knowingly (or unknowingly) bestow on each other far more often. Coming round the other side of grieving, the joy of living to the limit of possibilities seems to me to be a fitting response to Lee's lessons.

 Since we've collectively decided more or less to pursue our dreams regardless of outside validation by grants or awards, I have been daily amazed by the talent, tenacity and insight of you who are reading these words. It is such an incredible blessing to know a group of spirits such as we collectively form, a miracle we ought never take for granted.

  I wish you all (and your families) peace, health and joy, along the way....

Echoes from a Great Soul

 Date: Weds, 18 Dec 1996
 To: oiiall@gsn.org
 From: ferdi@tigger.jvnc.net (Ferdi Serim)
 Subject: Echoes from a Great Soul

 Hi folks,
 I want to share with you a message from Lee Reid, a dear friend who recently, tragically, died. . . . Her final message to her congregation was among the papers she carried the night she was struck by a car, and moved me so much that I thought those of us who work with people who are growing and learning might benefit by  reflecting on Lee's thoughts at this time.

 A to do list for December

 This holiday season, mend a quarrel.
 Seek out a forgotten friend.
 Dismiss suspicion, and replace it with trust.
 Write a love letter.
 Share some treasure.
 Give a soft answer.
 Offer encouragement.
 Manifest your loyalty in word and deed.
 Keep a promise.
 Find the time.
 Forgive an enemy.
 Listen.
 Apologize if you are wrong.
 Try to understand.
 Flout envy.
 Examine your demands on others.
 Think first of someone else.
 Appreciate.
 Be kind; be gentle.
 Laugh a little.
 Laugh a little more.
 Deserve confidence.
 Take up arms against malice.
 Decry complacency.
 Express your gratitude.
 Welcome a stranger.
 Gladden the heart of a child.
 Take pleasure in the beauty and
 wonder of the earth.
 Speak your love.
 Speak it again.
 Speak it still once again.

 Happy Holidays,
 Lee Reid

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